Life is busy. Seemingly, we're multi-tasking
at all time. You may find yourself washing dishes while keeping one eye on the
kids and the other on the television. Or maybe you plan your day while
listening to the radio and driving to work. Did you notice the kids' artwork on
the fridge, and how it's changed over the last year? Did you take the time to
notice the crispness in the morning air or how green everything is with the
recent rains? In the rush to complete daily tasks while planning the next
tasks, you may find you're losing your connection with the present.
What is mindfulness?
Mindfulness
is the practice of purposely focusing your attention on the present moment—and
accepting it without judgment. Practicing mindfulness can bring improvements in
both physical and psychological symptoms as well as positive changes in health
attitudes and behaviors.
Mindfulness techniques
While there is more than one way to practice mindfulness, the goal of any technique is to
achieve a state of alert, focused relaxation by deliberately paying attention
to thoughts and sensations without judgment.
What makes mindfulness so valuable
is that it requires a small investment of time and effort to bring about this
relaxation. It only requires you to move away from a focus on the future, or an
attempt to multitask, and toward the world around you.
Sensory
Notice sights,
sounds, smells, tastes and touches. Name them "sight," "sound," "smell," "taste," or "touch" without judgment and let them go. Just
connect with the world around you, noticing such things as the sounds in the
room, the temperature, the feelings of your hand on a table or feet in your
shoes. Just notice.
Body sensations
Notice
subtle body sensations such as an itch or tingling without judgment and let
them pass. Notice each part of your body in succession from head to toe.
Emotions
Allow emotions to be present without judgment. Practice a steady and relaxed
naming of emotions: "joy," "anger," "frustration."
Urge surfing
Cope with cravings (for addictive
substances or behaviors) and allow them to pass. Notice how your body feels as
the craving enters. Replace the wish for the craving to go away with the certain
knowledge that it will subside.
Basic mindfulness meditation
Sit quietly and focus on your natural breathing or on a
word or "mantra" that you repeat silently. Allow thoughts to come and
go without judgment and return to your focus on breath or mantra.
Above all, mindfulness
practice involves accepting whatever arises in your awareness at each moment.
It involves being kind and forgiving toward yourself. By practicing accepting
your experience during meditation, it becomes easier to accept whatever comes
your way during the rest of your day. Slow down.
Look. Listen. Breathe.